haha..interesting topic..my friend asked me this qns today..why do people around us emo? i looked around and found out it was quite true..actually all of us have an emo side..just tat if we show it or not..so just show it out now and than..so whn they have nothing to do..actually i myself is also an emo-er..just that i seldom showed it out..maybe cause of the joke side of me ba..haha..
so..y do people gt emo? izzit just plainly sad and depressed? haha..was so bored that i think of this topic..to me, i felt that mainly it was just the jealousy and 'wanted to win' feeling of us..we tend to dwell on what we can't achieve or what we can't get.
from there we think back to see when we can't get that something. we tend to get frustrated and locked ourselves up to look into our inner world, in there, memories are flashed and the result we wanted is next to one another and this creates the comparison we looked at. once we felt inferior, we will tend to get emo.
so the best way to get rid of it for me will be getting occupied with things and also not to like, hoping for something too much as it will led to deep sadness if we fail it..just treat everything normally and things will turn out well..i suppose..
for those other emo-ing reasons as family and $$, i got no experience so dn wana touched abt that..just..DON"T HOPE SO MUCH..jiu everything OK la!!
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